My dog has seizures and is getting old and Im tired of listening to my husband about this. I told her how her mom said before they got their dog that he was left alone in their house, and her response was, yeah, and who knows how long he was howling for! She makes no effort to break this habit either, which pisses me off. Of course, my bf thinks this is all cute and wonderful. My wife blames my 13 month pitt for everything that is chewed up regardless of where its laying at. Hes attached himself to this dog to the point were now separated. He obsesses over every detail related to this dog what it eats, what it plays with, where it is, how often it poops, etc. She has 5 dogs and I cant even begin to describe that situation. We have a great time together and have great chemistry. I started to love her. So, it should be done gradually and piecemeal. Best of luck !! He gets upset and says his babies do no wrong. I went back two days later and retrieved them. I feel for you, I really do. I was so relieved when we moved 3 hours away to stay with other family that doesnt allow dogs. A disagreement about pets doesnt have to spell the end of your relationship, but it may require that each of you make some accommodations. Then my partner came into my life. He repeatedly says how much he doesnt like him and talks about how its gross when he gets on the furniture. He was ok with both of them but hates my new dog, who is a sweetheart and the same breed as the other two. I really think a book could be written about this, and were going to be seeing a LOT more of it in the future as more people become single. He literally chewed through the bars. As long as your partner isnt abusive toward animals, he or she doesnt have to let Fido lick him/her on the face or put up with Kittys constant scratching. Long story short, it was an extremely stressful weekend, having to watch the little dog around my girlfriends dog 24/7, leash inside the house, etc. Several years ago I married a woman who had four dogs which she loves very much. Made him think about the entirety of this situation as well. This whole allergy thing started out when his parents looked after our cat during a month-long overseas trip we took when a friend of mine could no longer live up to her commitment in the last minute. Husband/boyfriend has an extravagant amount of responsibility for the canine. Fast forward a few years and quite a bit of work, I moved her away from all of her life threatening habits and got her cleaned up, I bought a house and we now have a child together. Someone may like pets, and someone may not. If the dog is the cause of many conflicts in your family, its a good idea to consult a professional psychologist to seek help. [Reasons + Do This], Can Dogs Eat Strawberry Ice Cream? He even send me a text telling me I threaten him with the dog and he threw the ring in the trash. Yikes Alisa. Besides an animal will die couple of years but marriage and your spouse will last forever. Aggressive to other pets in your household and other dogs. So, we gonna look into what you can do when your husband/boyfriend wants to get rid of or rehome your dog. Everything was going great while it was just my girlfriend, her dog and myself. That is a different matter. He will break out of whatever you try and put him in then raise hell on the whole house. In your own situation, step back and ask yourself why you are still living with him? when I try to teach him something I get pushed away. If he would just put effort into training I know wed see a difference. I use to say to those around me, Looks like Buffy decided to go to bed. Period! I have a dog who is trained, loved and well behaved. Its seemed like she was in love with him! Hi Elena! they should not be anywhere on the bed they have their own. Thats what youll have to look forward to if you are going to be with himsorry. We are expecting twins in January and the animals are not trained around small children and in fact have had incidences with smaller or other animals that resulted in aggression (the adult dog killed the kittens left unattended at their previous residence). Right after bringing her home, our youngest cat saw her and freaked out, terrified. Also this puppy is a Pitbull and my partner knows Im scared of these types of dogs. In fact, there is nothing wrong with that if you meet all the needs and wants. But as I sit here and read all the comments and the same scenarios I have been through, one thing does come to mind.communication. I love him and we have been together for almost three years and counting. I plan on keeping the mom and the babies will be adopted through the rescue I volunteer for. Its so ****** up!! He is basically the only company I have, he is a super nice, smart, beautiful cat. But f***, cant you show him discipline?? Since then, wife had brought a greyhound who is miserable to have around and barks at every little noise, including action on the TV during the hockey game, so much so that I crate him when Im watching sports. Its just a coffee table. I am a nursing student so money is very tight. I very seriously do not want to live with a dog but I also dont want to take anything away from my girlfriend. The beauty of a human beings love toward another is when it is not for the gain of the one giving the love, when it is altruistic and they see all of the things that you inherently bring into the world. When you have a good solid fenced backyard, it doesnt matter being aggressive toward other animals until the training finishes, Because, by any means, the dog cannot harm any creature whatsoever. I knew ofcourse he had dogs, but it wasnt until I came to him for vacation when he proposed and I actually lived together with the dogs to see how bad it is. According to her he also gets, cold all the time, so he wants to go under the covers. His dog sheds a full coat of hair every DAMN DAY. Tying the damn creature to a pole doesnt help, because the stupid creature keeps trying to kill itself on the leash as it tries to struggle out of it. I have never controlled how much he drinks and this has become a big argument in our house. Any views and opinions expressed are not necessarily shared by GoodTherapy.org. Sounds like your spouse loves you less than the dog. In fact, if the dog bitten kids or your guest more than once, the situation might be a little bit difficult to handle unless you made enormous of word of honors to correct this behavior. When I do though I will immediately recall moments during the two year courtship where I was driven crazy by her dog and by her lack of discipline. Your wife needs to understand that first and foremost, hes a puppy, second, they have lots of energy and if the puppy is not being walked, and I mean a use the bathroom and now lets focus on a strong walk, he will chew more. He had a new puppy and kitten.. Me being an animal lover was okay at first with the situation even tho I didnt want the cat indoors.. My daughter has a small allergy to cats. He wont take the thing to the vet, no matter what! Otherwise she whines ALL night. I want to be able to invite friends and family over to our house, and I just want a clean house and quality time with my husband together! She caught him, that night we have an emergency vet visit. I cant take the smell, the constant whining, crying and begging, the accidents and just the overrall attitude of this king dog. I soon after became pregnant. My soon to be husband (in 5 months) has two adorable dogs. Having an animal is a huge commitment that involves both of you and impacts the daily life of both of you. If he didnt go right to bed, shed bark at him. Well so am i!!!!!! Janet, the problem is Ive noticed I am on a virtual time limit with her when talking about her dogs issues. Quite amusing when everyone here is acting as though human loyalty and monogamy is just something coded deeply into our genes. Any chance of me getting attached to his dog flew out the window when he nipped at my son. Possibly one month would be enough. He shed very little, was brushed and bathed often and did not stink. The dog will poo and pee, I refuse to live like that. Wow. I just assumed it was a bit like were not getting a cat (weve got a rescued stray cat and he adores her) and I dont want a pet lizard and now weve had a female bearded dragon for 7 years that he absolutely dotes on. They get jealous when we are hugging and start whining. Hang in there. It has caused me a lot of stress. Im at the point of getting an apartment because at this point I dream of living in a home without animals. Is there any hope for this relationship? when the dog died which really upset me as i am a massive dog lover but he replaced him with another male even though i cannot deal with marking in the house and every darn thing in the garden covered with weewee , i have ferrets in a large shed and run but we have a gate infront of them or the dog will wee on them so he wees on the lock instead so i have to open that go indoors wash my hands before i can get a cuddle of my ferrets . It breaks my heart that your husband is being careless and not helping you or his dog. As time goes on I thought I may get used to it as I force myself to accept things. Remember, the more that you can comfortably include your dog in your relationship, the happier you all will be. I already have a 11month old shepard mix male. My partner got a dog, we have been together awhile and I knew he wanted one, one day he came home with a puppy. How can you be with person who hurts an animal and would probably be the same with a child who wants attention. We both work hard and long hours, so a dog has never been an option, I love cats, but would settle for a rabbit or Guinea pig, but even this is met with an absolute no. He knows his dog drives me crazy and I think tries to make things better but its got to be because he loves me. If you call it barking. I started a new relationship in January this year with a guy that does not like my dog. My neighbors tell me that they see my SO with the dog more then they see my child. Unfortunately, the hair is still an issue. HOW IN THE HELL IS THIS WORTH IT??? Then I tell myselffreak! They do NOT understand human speech. If you cant accept that sort of all-encompassing commitment then dont get a dog. A dog will stay with you out of need, a partner doesnt rely on you for their basic necessities. I actually had to clean it out of the DVD player the other day. Thats over the line.but he refuses to act on it . What makes it worse is that my furbaby just got diagnosed with eplisepy and is now costing us a little bit extra in medication (Im talking $20 a month, nothing drastic) but my partner feels the need to rave on about how my dogs fine and faking it. I would never allow an animal to usurp me ever again. Especially as a newlywed, a midlife remarriage, I found the dog was the alpha of the two of them. Just like you, I wouldnt ask anything outlandish either. My boyfriend was drunk and as he got out the car he started throwing up. You deserve love, caring, respect, loyalty. He does not bathe the dog for months and expect me to watch TV with a dog that stinks. How rude, especially for women, yet she never did anything wrong! So beware of a pet that has a human status and is for all intents and purposes the SO of the pet/human relationship. the puppy sleeps with us and the ex get jeleous when puppy puts his head on me. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. I consider giving them up {Ive had the pigs for over a year}, ignoring the nasty comments, or moving {but not sure I can afford another house and this home is 50% mine and Ive put money into it. } .. A PET IS DEFINITELY LIKE A CHILD! The steroids made her urinate excessively, unbeknownst to us. I told her that I felt I was doing more with her dog than she was. You are right in that you need two fairly like-minded people and this is one case in which we view things very differently. A partner than doesnt take care of their dog, doesnt train it, give it exercise or give it what it needs ( not wants) is the problem not the dog. I was raised around dogs, cats, birds, turtles, and fish. My son is almost 4, he can hardly enjoy the dog because the dog is probably 10 years old and hasnt had a lot of interaction with children. Later I thought, hed save me and blame me for the dog drowning. Luckily Im seeing my therapist Monday. He said he couldnt relax in his own home whilst we had a cat. In fact, giving less attention to the dog all of a sudden can lead to a number of psychological issues. To be honest, I love so many dogs, and they are a huge part of my life. We were supposed to go on a vacation when I came back. Now, we are back to this point where I have been bit by this dog now twice, she doesnt listen to me what so ever, refuses to eat unless its my wife who feeds her and Im nowhere around, is right there by my wifes side no matter what if shes not outside on her chain. If you want to be with him youll have to compromise and so will he with regular baths, air fresheners, daily vacuum sessions even though it seems pointless, and boundaries until the dog is passes on. Shes a one person dog. Mine lets the dog in the sofa and the bed even though I told her I didnt like it. My family and I just recently got a dog. Replays with your dogs so perfect! Well. Dont hire dog walkers. Like many people here I have always been a huge animal lover. Shes kind of mean to him tells me things like your dog is gross when hes licking himself between the legs (well, thats what dogs do). She was so cute and sweet, and my boyfriend was really happy to have her. She is your typical this is my fur child its like taking care of a baby. Not a fan of big dogs at all. They didnt sleep in bed with us, were not allowed on the couch, and did not beg and whine for food. When we came back my mother in law, who has always disliked me, claimed that she could never do this favour again because she had become allergic to that particular cat, that he was annoying, loud, etc etc. What does a woman want? My wife and I agreed that if the dog bit our little ones (before our first child was ever born) that the dog would have to goshe has reneged on that agreement upon the first bite. Investing some money on this is so worth it in this situation if you really wanna keep the dog, especially the dog has bitten someone already. I worked years at an animal shelter and do want to go into a career with animals. Chat with your husband/boyfriend: Talk with him very politely and say that you entirely agree and understandable his concern, and ask for another month to correct the behavior. I have had dogs and other animals my whole life. People are way too into saying put the pet above the human relationship and thats a bunch of B.S. I can be impatient and I know this but even when I am doing my best to accommodate the Boston, he ultimately makes me want to climb up a wall. So disgusting! :(. Were you a dog as a child? Why would that look cool? I know the situation is not helped by my depression and anxiety so Ive booked a session with a counsellor but I seriously dont know how to get past this. However, I did not think back then that we would end up living together as I thought we would be forced to split up as my period in Sweden was over. Im tired of being restricted on where we can go because of her dog. Challenging for sure when polar opposites. Choose wisely. Sounds like your partner is a narcissist, please join a narcissist support group on Facebook and check for yourself. Of course, hes noseblind to it and thats something that wont go away. Please help!!! One of the dogs is constantly trying to steal food from the table, the kitchen, out of my purse. Hes nuts. Him and I (Bobbi) dont get along at all!!! I dont understand!!!! This is the 5th time its happened and I dont want to live with this dog anymore. Without hurting your feelings she doesnt sound like your soulmate. My ex and I would walk with her bulldogs and people driving by would look and smile. Without them, they push and push and there are no limits to the rebellion/ control. She is constantly making licking noises, eats my dogs food when my dogs not looking and seems to act like more of a jerk when my boyfriend is gone. During that time I was cheated on. Id say if he leaves: good riddance!! Why? My wife and I have had this dog for about a month now. I tell him she was with me before we met, he hates her because my ex got her for me. When theres conflict over pets, getting specific about the problem can help you figure out a solution. They go berserk at anyone that comes near the house but im not alloud to interveen to shut them up, my daughter calls me a c##t and my wife says im a bastard but not to my face. For more information, please see our I NEVER let him eat off a plate and my husband is the one who sneaks him scraps under the table. A dog is an animal period, it has no human characteristics!!! The biggest mistake was bringing the dog into the bed because now hes trained to think thats where hes supposed to be. Dogs are great for narcissists; they put their human on a pedestal, revolve their world around the human, and never object. He spent a weekend and came to his senses about the dog in the bed. This is obvious. When I come home and open the door it smells so horrible that Ive thrown up a couple times from it. If your in a relationship with a human isnt the idea to share your bed w a human? Any helpful advice please? Occasionally if she was let inside too long with out going potty she would have an accident or knock over the trash.. He has absolutely no discipline. My dog and his dog get along famously since they met when he was six weeks old, but now he doesnt want them to go for walks anymore because his dog is sore the next day. When we started the relationship, it was big problems with his doga chihuahua. I didn't think much of who cared for biscuit at the time simply because it wasn't none of my business. Given that one of the dogs has bitten another dog before? The house smells like ammonia and I cant be in that environment, my throat starts to hurt and its just disgusting. I am still so depressed about it but have gotten better (its been about 6 months since) but i now have an absolute hate for my fiances dog. Does that lazzyness (sp) apply to other issues as well such as keeping the house clean? I think we should both let them go and find someone who loves us for who we are and accepts our pets x. I dont agree with how the dog is treated but please realize.A DOG IS NOT A PERSON AND TO THINK THAT THE WAY A DOG IS TREATED WILL REFFECT HOW A CHILD IS TREATED IS LUDICROUS. any suggestions on what to do!?!? Shed sit on the far left of the sofa. I know its been 7 years but you shouldnt let anyone make you feel bad for doing what you love in life. So sorry for what you going through. i would say NAH. :/. Most of these problems come from women, judging by these posts, who overly love their pets and cant seem to compromise other than say if hes not a pet person we cant have a successful relationship. I believe women need to stop giving dogs human characteristics and treat them like an animal. Oh wait.a dog cant do those things so what is the debate then? He is well behaved, obedient i took him to puppy classes i give him love he is not spoiled he listens to me. I attempt to talk to him but he says I must not care enough about him since I dont want to take care of them. Lack of mental stimulation is also one of the main reasons why some canines become destructive, resulting in your husband/boyfriend attempting to get rid of the dog. He never had a pet as a child, he likes animals in their own habitat and not in the house, I want a pet to sit on my knee and to love and stroke. I need only to say No and she stops. Thanks for positive feedback anyone and negative feedback thank you as well. I believe people who let their animals do these things are harbouring their own issues with people and secretly enjoying the pretend power their out of control mutts are giving them. I kept telling him,Dogs are expenisive, Blah blah HE KNEW I WASNT THRILLED with the idea of a dog. A year on and he works full time and he cant take dog with him, I work from home so I look after both dogs, sometimes my partner doesnt even take them for walks in the evening as hes so tired from work and he gets upset if I dont go for a walk with him ,but its all right for me to walk the dogs during the day by myself. He has said I have to get rid of my dog. My house smells like a kennel and is full of fur. Tell that guy to pack his clothes and his dog and cat and GET THE HECK OUT!!!!!! Its causing me anxiety when ever I come home. As we prepare for dinner, long and behold her dog is right there between us ready to eat as well! He wont listen to him and its making the situation worse! If you are, seek help immediately and DO NOT take your anger out on innocent animals. I did not want another dog. You are not crazy!!! And a mean one at that. The wife claims its not fair I came with 2 and she only has one. I ask if has ever yelled at her or hit or kicked her or anything that she would be afraid of him but he always says no she just doesnt listen to me. I sleep on the sofa. Her hair gets e v e r y w h e r e. At night we are forced to put her in the kitchen because she crawls up on the couch while we are sleeping, and its obvious because the couch is covered in fur. She has since then adjusted her sleeping habits and we have both been the happier. (unless you count liking to lick me a bad habit) She LOVES to hike in the arroyos and hills, is very friendly and outgoing, plays games w me like fetch and keep away and plays with her squeakiesshe never chews cords like the previous ownets said and she did once w me . I am beyond fed up with Bobbi! I was even letting the dog outside, feeding it etc. And if we just walk to the kitchen its constant begging. This thing is hyper and destructive, and my husband refuses to make it ever behave. :\ just getting to much with her sometimes its like I cant trust her at all when shes alone. Im also making a change myself and I told him that he needs to be patient and let us both adapt but his negativity is really starting too exceed the limits of my patience. You live your own life and Ill live mine ^_^ Being human doesnt mean I have to cater to the emotional needs of you or others. So Im resentful that I cant have those cuddly mornings with my bf any more. My boyfriend lets the dog basically inhale my face when I walk in the door and it totally ruins my mood, especially since he knows how much I hate it. I have been thru this many many times and want to tell you dont give in. Founded in 1996, Sam The Dog Trainer is a private, Phoenix-based company that provides on-site and online dog training services specifically designed to enhance the relationships between dogs and their owners. I also have a dog of my own. Best of luck !!! Have faith that what you feel is correct. Do you INVITE your partner to bed? Yuck! Unless hes just being an ass, then maybe you should reconsider staying with your partner. She said she would compromise and not let the dog on human spaces. I feel like thats sort of evil and that she lied about who she was. I received pictures every week and I can see by her sleeping posture that she is both happy and comfortable. I respect animals and am even a vegetarian, I eat fish. They CAN be in a crate. He said that it had been almost a year since he was able to really be affectionate towards his wife. There are many constraints you have passively aggressively imposed on your partner. You deserve a warm man in your bed who physically and emotionally loves you. Change in environment. I love my dogbut she is a dog. I have a lab, who has had obedience training. And I dont know what to do. I feel so sorry for her partner. I ended up in the ER with puncture wounds bleeding all over. So I would encourage you to stand firm now before you get too emotionally involved with him. Were simply not in the business of alienating friends and family over a dog. Years ago I had a niece who got some sort of virus infection on her nose that the doctor said was from her dog. I finally told her a few weeks ago that the animal needs to find a new home. It is nice, and I dont dislike it, but the problem is the hair. They arent able to cook dinner when youve had a hard night. Maybe its a type of avoidance technique, to create a world centered around their dogs so that they dont feel so lonely and can justify not having normal social relationships with others. Im the one who usually cleans the bed sheets. I know we need to work on the dogs training, but I feel like it might be easier if my husband liked the dog enough to help share the responsibility of training so that we could tackle it together. LOL Make sure to strictly adhere to that advice if you really wanna keep the dog. Get advice from a dog behaviorist: But, you shouldnt do this right away as you realize the reason. I am living it. Hed sit in a recliner to the left of his sofa. All I can promise is that I will think heavily on what youve said. too much affection drives me nuts. I treat the cat better than him(see above). You are prioritizing the dog over boyfriend/husband. You, and those like you, anthropomorphize human feelings onto dogs. Of course we spoiled the crud out of them too. But I am miserable. I guess he probably sees the thing like his child also. In the beginning he pawed at the door frame, and damaged the entire thing, now I put a blockade near it so he doesnt do that. I find hair still on clothes that Ive washed after being there. Sure they make great companions, but they also require boundaries in the home and animals will always be just that, regardless to how some people try to anthropomorphisize them. Dogs are a species of animal. ive been forced to sleep in the spare room a lot of nights because she moves about constantly and snores and keeps me up the whole night. I have started hating that cat, have become extremely resentful and am considering divorce though that would be the last resort. Most importantly, never sell yourself short and allow yourself to be second best. I hope that some training will be worth trying. I DISAGREE.. why would you allow your pet to ruin expensive stuff that did not belong to you and pee everywhere? I cant stand the cat. He has OCD when it comes to his ball and is constantly dropping it in front of you demanding you throw it somewhere for him to fetch. More and more lately if I move him somewhere he doesnt want to go. It simply would not be tolerated. Im just so overwhelmed. If you do so, you will see a huge improvement within a week or two. Shes a straight up intelligent manipulative bag. Just like having one boy and one girl as children, I want one cat and then Ill be happy. Well that turned into a massive power struggle in which he would get mad every time I actually suggested/implemented anything because he thought I was either being unreasonable or somehow hurting his dog. Hes got them in the habit of getting a treat when they do their business. I love animals and I feel bad about my resentment towards my husbands dogs. So I got a dog bed and put it next to our bed. I grew up with dogs, they will not die from having table scraps! I believe shes jealous but he doesnt seem to see it. When cooking, the dogs are right there in the kitchen in the way, so you constantly have to make sure you dont step on them. I enjoy cuddling with him. My Vet says that they get even meaner with age. Im slowly retraining my boyfriend and his dog. 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